2006-07-17 05:09:10 UTC
fastseduction.com site and going through threads in this forum. I
decided this weekend I would do some experiments with what I've
learned. I went with some friends on a road trip this weekend.
We got to a mall to do some shopping and we all split up. So I was
Now, in the past, I would never try to initiate eye contact with girls.
I was simply relying on my extreme manliness and gorgeous body to make
girls run up to me and say "Take me home with you now!". Obviously this
wasn't working, so I decided to change things up.
So I decided I would try to initiate and maintain eye contact until
they broke it. Realize that I'd never usually have prolonged eye
contact with anyone (friends, family, coworkers...) in the past, so
this was a fairly big step for me.
I tried to get eye contact from about 30 feet out and maintain it until
they passed me. I did this as they walked by without smiling or saying
hi. Most looked away and didn't look back. A couple sneaked a look over
without turning their heads. But no girls smiled or said hi.
I decided to smile after I got eye contact. Problem was most looked
away so fast that they didn't see me smile at them. Some girls
maintained eye contact with me long enough to see me smile and these
ones usually smiled back. A lot broke eye contact after seeing me smile
but they still smiled.
I met up for lunch with my friends and noticed a girl (5-6) sitting at
a nearby table. Though not absolutely gorgeous she had some friendly
quality that drew me to her. I initiated eye contact with her and
smiled. She smiled and broke eye contact. We did this a few times until
we were finished. She left the food area and started walking in the
mall. I followed her, came up behind her and grabbed her ass...haha
just joking...I said "Hi". She said "Hi". I said something along the
lines of "I know this might seem unusual, but have you ever felt some
kind of connection with some stranger you've seen in passing? I felt
that something when I saw you. And since we'll probably never see each
other again I thought I'd just tell you that".
She said "Oh that's so nice. What's your name?"
I told her my name, she told me her's and we shook hands.
We had some small talk but nothing else resulted from it.
Now it may have been my line "And since we'll probably never see each
other again..." that had an air of finality to it. Anyway, I felt
extremely awkward during this conversation and certainly need to polish
my delivery. I know I broke eye contact and fell back into my AFC ways.
It still felt good to have some kind of positive reaction.
I had another small interaction with a couple girls earlier in the day.
My friends and I were at a Starbuck's. We were just sitting around
chillin' a bit. I noticed a couple girls sitting at a nearby table
(7-8's) One had a purse with an "Angry Little Girl's" scene on it.
"http://www.angrylittlegirls.com/" The scene was of two little girls
one girl was saying "I love your purse". The other was saying "Go find
your own purse b*%ch". It made me laugh. As we were leaving I hung back
a bit and said to the girl "Your purse made me laugh". She said "OMG!
I've had this purse for so long now and you're the first person to
notice it!" She was laughing and all giggly. I was stunned and didn't
know what to do. Her reaction pushed me back into an AFC state. I just
did not expect such a positive reaction. So I said bye and left. I'm
still kicking myself now. I should have started a conversation. I know
I could have gotten their phone numbers. DARN!
Anyway, I'd appreciate any comments. I'm going to keep refining my
thoughts and approaches.